Today is Valentine’s Day, the day of flying babies whose job it is to get men and women together to make more (flying) babies. I guess they also get men and men together, and sometimes women and women, but not necessarily with the intention of making babies. These cherubs have no interest in getting dogs, cats, rabbits, or any other animal together, which seems very short sighted and speciesist, since they are capable of love as well. I have gotten way off topic.
Flirting. We all do it, no matter how awkwardly. Even if we are married, or seeing someone, we are all guilty of an innocent flirt. Why do we do it? “To get laid” was my answer, but apparently that is not always true. NIU Professor and sexual specialist David Henningsen, has been studying this topic for years. It turns out we have several reasons for flirting: to get laid (I was right), to test the waters with a current friend and possible potential mate, or even simply to build self-esteem or get something you want.
Check out the article.  You may be doing it (flirting, not sexual intercourse), and not even know it.